Grayson County Military Divorce Lawyer
Military divorce can be highly complicated. Members of the military and their spouses face different rules and considerations in divorce. At Jeremy J. Poet Law Firm, PLLC, we understand the challenges that service members and their spouses may face. We will help you understand the requirements while protecting your interests throughout the process.
In any average divorce, you will need to take the following topics into consideration:
- Child custody and visitation
- Property division
- Alimony
- Child support
We have represented a number of clients facing contested and uncontested divorces in Sherman. We will protect your interests throughout the legal process. Our approach is tailored to fit your settlement and child custody priorities.
Special Considerations For Military Divorce
In a military divorce, you must consider added assets and rules that the average civilian would not, including:
- Military pensions and benefits
- Disability benefits
- Stipends
- Deployment and active duty rules
Divorce is already difficult, but a military divorce can become increasingly complicated and drawn-out, causing increased emotional stress for both parties. We will handle all the details to relieve some of your anxiety. Most importantly, we will protect your interests, even in the courtroom. Our founding attorney, Jeremy J. Poet, is an experienced trial attorney. He will be your committed advocate, no matter the complexity of your case. You can be confident that Mr. Poet and the professional legal team at Jeremy J. Poet Law Firm, PLLC, will resolve your legal issues.
How Is A Military Divorce Different From A Civilian Divorce In Texas?
Military divorces follow the same basic Texas family law requirements but involve additional federal regulations that civilian couples never encounter. The Servicemembers Civil Relief Act and Uniformed Services Former Spouses’ Protection Act create extra layers of complexity beyond standard state divorce procedures.
Military families deal with unique assets, including pensions, housing allowances, combat pay and specialized benefits, that require careful evaluation during property division. Frequent relocations and deployments can complicate jurisdiction issues and make serving papers more challenging.
Active duty schedules often conflict with court dates, requiring special accommodations that civilian divorces rarely need. Child custody arrangements must account for deployment schedules and duty station changes that significantly impact parenting time.
Can Active Duty Military Members Delay The Divorce Process?
Yes, active duty service members can request delays under the Servicemembers Civil Relief Act (SCRA). This federal protection allows military personnel to postpone court proceedings when military duties prevent them from participating effectively in their defense.
The SCRA must be properly observed in all cases where the member was on active duty during divorce proceedings. Courts may grant stays when service members demonstrate that military service materially affects their ability to appear, but the specific duration depends on individual circumstances and court discretion.
However, these protections have limits. Courts balance military obligations against the other spouse’s rights and may deny requests for unreasonable delays. The SCRA notice provides detailed information about these protections and requirements.
How Are Military Pensions Divided In Divorce?
The Uniformed Services Former Spouses’ Protection Act (USFSPA) governs how courts can divide military retirement benefits. The USFSPA recognizes state courts’ authority to distribute military retired pay and provides enforcement methods through the Department of Defense.
Courts determine division amounts based on state property laws, with awards expressed as either fixed dollar amounts or percentages of disposable retired pay. For divorces finalized after December 23, 2016, new National Defense Authorization Act (NDAA) rules limit disposable pay calculations to the member’s basic pay at the time of the court order, adjusted for cost-of-living increases.
For court orders issued before November 14, 1986, portions based on disability retired pay cannot be enforced under the USFSPA. These distinctions require careful analysis to protect both parties’ interests and ensure proper child custody arrangements remain feasible.
What Is The 10/10 Rule In Military Divorce?
The 10/10 rule requires couples to have been married for at least 10 years, during which the service member performed 10 years of creditable military service before orders dividing retired pay as property can be enforced under the USFSPA. This rule determines enforcement eligibility through the Defense Finance and Accounting Service (DFAS), not the division amount itself.
Courts can still award military pension portions in marriages under 10 years, but enforcement must occur through alternative collection methods rather than direct DFAS payments. The rule also requires proper state court jurisdiction over the service member through residence, domicile or consent.
Importantly, the 10/10 rule does not apply to child support or alimony enforcement under the USFSPA.
Schedule A Consultation To Discuss Your Options With A Lawyer
If you are considering a divorce, do not hesitate to contact our office. You will receive a personal, free consultation with an attorney to discuss all your legal needs. We will walk you through the process and provide honest legal advice. Reach our office today by calling us at 903-357-5269 or filling out our online contact form.

